The Couple's Budget

A SolarPunk guide — 70% of what you paid goes to the Palestinian Children's Relief Fund (EIN 93-1057665, pcrf.net).

Stop fighting about money

Money is the number one source of conflict in relationships — ahead of infidelity, ahead of parenting, ahead of everything. And it's almost never really about the money; it's about respect, security, control, and power. This is the complete system for two people who share a life to end the same recurring fight for good.

The Yours / Mine / Ours method

A structure that gives both people full financial visibility, genuine independence, and equal dignity — regardless of who earns more. Spenders and savers, planners and improvisers: it's built to hold both at once, not to force one person to become the other.

What's inside

The Yours/Mine/Ours method in depth · the Monthly Money Date and exactly how to run it · the "Check-in, not checking up" rule · handling income gaps across four real scenarios · the Fun Money Truce and the psychology behind it · free tools for the whole system · how it survives big life events · five real-couple case studies · and scripts for every hard money conversation, word for word.

Who it's not for

This isn't couples therapy, and it won't fix financial abuse or hidden debt — those need a professional, not a budget. It's for two adults who want to build the structures that defuse money fights before they start.